What is Counselling?

Counselling is a process of  talking about and working through your personal problems with a counsellor.

The counsellor helps you to address your problems in a positive way by helping you to clarify the issues, explore options, develop strategies and increase self-awareness. Counselling provides confidential support and follows ethical guidelines.

Therapy sessions are usually up to one hour in length, on a regular basis such as weekly or fortnightly.  You may meet with the counsellor for only a short time or for a number of months.  You will be expected to practice what is learned between each session if you wish to make lasting changes. 

Gill has private rooms in the mid-north and she also regularly travels to Whangarei.

What is the role of the counsellor?

Counsellors provide support to people experiencing emotional difficulties by helping them to identify and work through their issues. A Counsellor uses techniques such as talking therapy to assist people to reach their own resolutions or develop strategies to address and resolve their concerns.

Our Services

Cognitive behaviour Therapy

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) has the ability to transform your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. My program offers practical strategies to enhance your overall quality of life.

Gestalt Therapy

Gestalt therapy emphasises the importance of focusing on present events to enhance awareness, independence, and self-control.

Behavioural Therapy

Behavioral therapy addresses mental health conditions by modifying learned behaviors. It distinguishes and assists in transforming potentially hazardous behaviors.

Person Centred Therapy

Person-centred therapy focuses on the client’s innate drive for growth and self-actualisation, with the counsellor providing a safe and nonjudgmental space for self-exploration.

Sand play/tray Therapy

Sandtray therapy is a creative method of therapy for individuals who want to express their emotions, thoughts, and aspirations. The sand tray is a miniature world where people project their experiences and employ symbols to tell their stories

Creative Arts Therapy

Is a creative process that can be a way for us to explore and express feelings that may be hard to put into words.

Mindfulness

Mindfulness is the practice of gently focusing your awareness on the present moment over and over again.

Group Programmes

Programmes/training courses on management of stress and anxiety. Maximum of 12 people per course.

Also offering ‘Brick Club’ social skills training course for youth using Bricks (e.g. Lego).
Further details available when each course is advertised.

You can use the contact page to notify us of your interest in these courses or check back to this page for more information on upcoming courses.

FAQ

  • Something has been troubling you over a period of time and you’re having difficulty finding a solution on your own.
  • Things are getting on top of you, and affecting your well-being, for example, causing depression, anxiety, stress, grief or anger.
  • You find it hard to talk to friends or family because they are directly involved in the issues.
  • Issues from the past are having an impact on your day to day life.  
  • Things that are troubling you are having a negative impact on your relationships or work.
  • You have suffered domestic, physical or sexual abuse.
  • Improved communication and interpersonal skills.
  • Greater self-acceptance and self-esteem.
  • Ability to change self-defeating behaviours/habits.
  • Better expression and management of emotions, including anger.
  • Relief from depression, anxiety or other mental health conditions.
  • Increased confidence and decision-making skills.

Generally speaking, counsellors are under an obligation not to use or share information their patients have discussed. However, there are a number of exceptions which allow counsellors to disclose information in appropriate circumstances. 

  • Threat to Client or anyone else’s life (public safety)
  • Court Subpoena 

Counsellors can share information confidentially with their professional supervisors. They will keep your identity confidential, and the supervisor will also respect your privacy. Supervision ensures the quality of the counsellors work with you is checked. Supervision helps to keep the standard of counselling practice high.

I’m Listening Counselling Services are available for Adults and Children: